What should i do wife left.?

need help!!! hey im a man, just got married march 2nd 2010, me and my wife got along well we started a small buessness. in one mth, we have no time really trying to get this thing going. well my wife told me that she needed more affection, i told her ok, we just been really busy. well last week she had a doc appt away. i couldnt go at this time she new it. she went alone. never came back home xcept to get her stuff. i have begged her back abd begg. all i get is that she say i didnt show anought attention i agree with that, but we both diddnt at this time .i have ask to please come back and why didnt u just sit down with me to talk this over . hit me r something. just dont walk out like this. well. she want call me are even listen. nor have even tryed to sit down and work this out in anyway. shes now staying with a girlfriend that i beleave is nugging her head full of crap. only 9 weeks of marriage people.how can a women do this r man.i have tryied so hard to get her to come back. told her im sorry and i didnt see what was really going on. i love this women alot.my strongest love thus for for any women. she want come back.. she said i showed my doughter more attention then her. is only 9. she said that she forgive me but it want change her mind to come back here. is she cheeting? i cancelled her car insurence. and she sold her home and land when she move here with me.no job. and took 401 out of my checking when she left tuesday mornning at 7am. how can this happend we got along fine. no fuss. anything like that. did i do wrong yes i think i did for more attention yes i should have. but that went both ways thus to the buesness. but walk away???? with out even sitting down and getting things out called talking. what should i do?? forget it. dont call her anymore? i no shes loves me. got to. what should i do???? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! r just let her go and live it the hard way with out thease things.